Why you give promise to someone?

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Now let's began with today's topic. Well we all make promises to some person. Have you ever thought that why we give promise? 

Well it's simple, sometimes it's become difficult to say no to the people who really cares for us and loves us. When we are talking with someone and he/she ask us for a promise for something then we used to give them promise without thinking because at that moment that person wants to hear it. We do promise to make someone happy because by promising, the person is convinced and that person will also trust on us. So that's why we give promise. But do you know that sometime We break promise that we have given to someone and why we break? 

sometimes we forget some promise because we make n number of promise to someone. So it become difficult to remember all promise. Some people don't remember that they have made a promise to someone and they breaks that promise. 

Some people like to do whatever they want to, so they break promise that they had given to someone. Some people's are unable to fulfill their promises due to their compulsions and sometimes we see those promises as restriction & that's why also we break promise that we have given to someone.

Do you know that breaking promise can also have disastrous effect on someone? Can you tell me that how? and do we just only break the promise or something else also?

Yes, it's absolutely right that breaking a promise can also have disastrous effect. I am giving you a very simple example. Assume that you are in relationship with someone from 9 years and you deeply love that person. One day he/she leaves you then what will happen to you? How will you handle yourself? 

You have given your time, your feelings, your emotions to that person and suddenly he/she leaves you. Some peoples go into the depression and some people even commit to suicide. So isn't it dangerous? 

 

Let's take another example also. If your parents also make promise to you that if you will come first in the claas then we will give this to you and you are not brilliant student in studies. But you are doing lot of efforts to come first in the claas and there are lot of intelligent students in your class and then also you came first but your parents didn't give you anything to you and even they refused to give anything to you. How will you feel? 

We not only break promise that we have given to someone else we break trust of that person. He/she can't trust on anyone just because someone have broken his/her  promise. 

So never break promise that you have given to someone because breaking a promise means breaking someone trust. If you know that you can't fulfill this promise then don't give promise regarding that and if you that you can then give promise. Promise is not only a word but someone trust and believe. When we break our promise then that person can never believe on us. 

Who takes promise from us:

• The person who wants to live with us always take promise from us because he/she don't want to leave us. 

• The person who really possessive for us then he/she takes promise from us. 

• The person who genuinely feels jealousy when we talk to some other person then he/she take promise from us that don't talk with anyone. Promise me that you will never cheat me. 

• If a person is afraid of something then he/she takes promise form you just because of his/her satisfaction. 

Before making promise ask these questions to yourself:

• Can I able to fulfill my promise in future? 

• What are its effect on my surrounding? 

• What is the guarantee that in tough situation that promise will favour you? 

• Is that person really deserve? 

If all these conditions are true then only give promise to someone because there are not only good person in World, there are so many bad people's also and they can take any promise from you. So before giving promise ask these questions from yourself.

Well, there are so many reasons that can be good as well as bad too. If you want to give promise then give if you don't want then don't give because it's your wish and it's your life. But if you are giving promise to someone then anyhow you have to complete it. 

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