Is it easy to be a girl?

 Hello everyone, welcome back to my blog. Today I wants to ask some questions to you. Is it easy to be a girl? Why girls are still killed before birth? Why girls are raped everyday? Why people don't understand the feelings of a girl and why the girls are still ignored? Why girls are not taught like boys? Why girls are judged by their colour and figure? Why girls are still confined to cooking only? Why only boys are allowed to go outside alone? 

There are so many questions related to girls. I know that some peoples are thinking that time has been changed. Now girls and boys are treated equally. But dude you are wrong. Girls are not equally treated like boys and do you know why? It's just because they are girls. Can anyone tell me that where is the real home of a girl? Jis ghar me ladki ka janam hota hai vo bolte hai tujhe to praye ghar jana hai aur jha shadi krke jati hai vo bolte hai tu to praye ghar se aai hai. Toh ladki ka asli ghar hai kha? Ladko ke liya bolna bhot aasan hai ki mera ghar tera he to hai. But it's not right. 

Do you know that girls can't even make boy friends. They don't have permission to talk with a boy. But why? What is wrong in this? Aren't boys human? Parents are also right because they have experienced a lot of things and even they know what is right and wrong for their child. But why parents also do discrimination? Why they don't treat their child's equally? Why parents only give permission to a boy to do everything? Why boys are not reprimanded like girls on their mistakes? Just because he is a boy. I have seen so many boys who used to spend their lot of time outside the home and their parents don't say anything to them. But why? When a girl do the same then people used to judge her character. Some peoples used to say that she is characterless. I wants to ask you that is it a big crime to go outside from house? Nope...... It's not a crime. It's your mentality to judge a girl only. 

Do you know that some peoples are still there who used to think....

                 Small clothes = Rape 

There was a muslim girl in burkha and she was raped. So how can you say that just because girls wear small clothes and they look sexy that's why they are raped? 

Some peoples also used to say that....

                     Night out = Rape

There was a girl and she was just of 5 years. Some of her neighbours has raped her inside her house. So how can you say that girls are raped just because they wear short clothes and they go outside from their house. Dude girls are not even safe at their homes. They are raped because of boys bad intension. Actually neither all boys are bad nor good. But if you are a boy then you should understand that some boys are responsible for all this. 

Some parents used to say that modelling mt kro, ache gharo ki ladkiya nhi krti..... Don't post your photo on social media, what will you do after becoming a scientist when you have to do household chores. In which century do you live. Today's girls have gone to the moon, what era are you talking about man? Now girls are in every field  whether it's modelling or teaching. There are some peoples who used to do very bad comments on girls picks. But why? Who are you to say something about her. Some boys also ask girls for nude picks then dude just go and ask to your mother and sister. Agr tum kisi ke baare me acha nhi bol skte to tumhe koi Haqq nhi kisi ke baare me glt bolne ka. 

I wants to share a real story of my mother with you all. When she was just of 6 and 7 years and at that time to now she was doing house work. Why? Why a husband can't help her wife? Just because she is a girl/woman, it's her responsibility to do everything. But it's wrong. When I was born then no one was happy except my mother and this is the reason why I loved her the most. My grandma don't even used to Play with me and do you know why? It's just because I was a girl. They don't behave well with my mom. My father never used to ask my mother before doing anything. Why? Just because she is a girl/women. Everyone used to scold her whether she has made a mistake or not. But she has tolerate/endure a lot. A girl can sacrifice everything for her family. But what can you sacrifice for a girl? So am again asking is it easy to be a girl? 

If a boy is using phone all the time then no one will say much to him but if a girl is using phone all the time then everyone will scold her and also some peoples are there who used to start judging her character. Still peoples are saying that girls are treated equally and I wants to ask you all that why girls are killed and burnt? Just because they are girls? This happens because some peoples used to play with her body and then they used to kill her. But why? I wants to ask such persons that haven't you ever seen a girl before?  When a girl say no to someone then some people's used to throw acid on their face. It's her life and she can say no and yes to you if she wants. Don't do all such things. 

A girl keeps many things hidden inside her heart. She doesn't wants to give tension to anyone. Aur kbhi to vo dar jati hai khi log usi ko glat na samjhe. Isliye vo apne dil ki baat apne dil me he rkhti hai. She always stands with her family in their bad times and she always supports her family. Girls have also their emotions and they can also love someone but do you know why peoples don't understand them? It's because they are girls. I know that parents never think bad of their child but why they don't give priority to their childrens and specially to a girl? Why her happiness doesn't matter for parents? Parents only used to say that we wants to see you happy. But when a girl wants to live with her lover and wants to do marriage with him then why they don't give permission to a girl? Why parents only allow boys to do love marriage? Why parents only used to think that she will not be happy with her lover? Why? 

Yes parents are also right but when a girl and boy have to live after marriage then what is the problem? and do you know that at the end some girls used to sacrifice her love just because of their parents happiness. This types of many sacrifices they used to do in their life. 

How do you wants a girl to think? If a girl talks about periods in front of everyone then you call her shameless but when a girl doesn't talk about periods then you used to say that in which century do you live. It's natural to have periods. So tell me how a girl should think? Tum he log ho jo uska mjaak bnate ho isliye vo sb baatein chupati hai and kuch logo ki glat thinking ki vjh se bhi ye sb ho rha hai. It's not easy to be a girl. Ladkiyo ko mara jata hai to khi bolte hai ki vo laxmi ka roop hai. At last I wants to say that change your thinking level first then judge a girl. Not all boys are bad there are few boys who are really good. So I am not talking about all the boys. According to me, rapist and acid attackers should be hanged Directly. Always understand a girl because the whole world is made by girls. Kalpana Chawla, janshi ki rani , Laxmi bai they all are also girls.

So give freedom to all girls and allow them to achieve their goals. 

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