Why a men can't cry?

 Hello everyone, welcome back to my blog. How many of girls are reading this blog? Well I am not a boy but yeah I know that life of boy's is not easy. Why everyone think that all boy's are bad? Why a men can't cry? Do boy's have no feelings. Why everyone think that girl's have to face lot of difficulties everyday? Is life easy for boy's? Why only boys are asked to earn money? Have you ever thought that how much rest your father takes every day? Why always boys are proved wrong whether it's the fault of girl? Do you know why this happens? 

It's because we all think that girl's can never be wrong. But why? Is a girl always right? 

It's not much easy to be a boy. If a boy stay at home then peoples say that don't you have any work and when a boy goes outside from the house then peoples say that he must be doing time paas. So tell me whether a boy should stay at home or not? When a boy doesn't earn money then peoples say to him that what will you feed to your family and if a boy fulfill his dreams by earning money then do you know what peoples say? They say that he has pride of money. If a boy don't talk to a girl then everyone say that how arrogant is he and if a boy talks to girl then everyone and specially girls say that he is like that ( ye to esa he hai, iski to niyat he khraab hai ) 

So tell me whether a boy should talk to a girl or not? 

We always say that don't do discrimination but why everyone is doing discrimination with boys? Why a boy has to proof that he is loyal and he is not like other boys? Why always boy have to give proof that he has done nothing and it's not his fault. Why? 

Do you know that boys are much loyal than girls in a relationship. Girls leave boys by making some excuses but a boy never leave her no matter how big problem they are facing. There was a boy and her girlfriend has leaved him by making excuses and when she was talking with him after some time then can you imagine what he said to her..... He said her that maine to pyaar kiya tha aur tune mujhe dokha diya pr mai tujhe kese badnaam kr skta tha sbke saamne kyuki tujhse pyaar jo kr betha. All boys are not same. There are few boys who are really good.

 

A men can also cry because he has also feelings. Basically tears show weakness, lack of confidence. Society has made it shameful for men to cry because men should always appear strong, brave and confident. Most of the people's say that boys doesn't feel pain. But tell me why can't boys feel pain? Aren't they living beings? Yes it's true that boys are physically stronger than a girls. Many boys 

are there who always try hide their pain just because just because they are boys. But is it easy to hide the pain of heart? No it's not easy. Girls can express their pain by crying but what about boys? They can't even cry just because they are boys. From childhood, boys are taught that respect girls, respect womens but no girl is taught that respect boys, respect men's. Now where has gone equality? Do you know that there are some boys who really respect girls and also they understand their feelings. So it's wrong to say that boys don't understand the feelings and emotions of a girl. 

When a boy turns to 20, peoples start asking him that how much money do you earn. Have you got job or not? Girls can even decide that whether she will do job or not but what about boys? They will have to do job and earn money any how. A men have lot of responsibilities like he have to do job, he have to take care of his family and many more responsibilities. Generally it's only the responsibility of a men to take care of his wife and children except exceptions but girls don't have such responsibilities. 

Why is it always expected from boys that they should understand you? Tell me who will understand boys? Who will understand their feelings and emotions? When a girl loves somebody and her family came to know then her parents will stop her from going outside. But when a boy do the same and his family came to know then they used to kill him and sometimes girls family also kill him. So I am again asking you all that is it easy to be a men? 

How easy is it for a wife to say to her husband that bring gold jewellery for me and bring this and that but do you know what a husband do if he has less money.  Instead of buying something for himself, he buys for his wife and children's. It's not easy to be a men. He has to face lot of difficulties everyday. My father works in a private sector and he doesn't think much about himself. He can hardly take rest of 6 hours. But why he do lot of hard work? It's just because so that he can fulfill our all needs. No one can be like a father. 

Mostly people says that boys never afraid. But why they can't afraid? Just because they are boys. Jb koi ladki dar jae to sb bhot pyaar se bolte hai ki ese nhi darte pr agr ek ladka dar jae to sb usko darpok bolte hai. A boy always say to her wife that I am with you and I can do anything to make you happy but who will make him happy? 

Why most of the people's say that girls are confined to cooking only? Why peoples still say that boys doesn't help her wife? There are few husbands who really help her wife in her household chores. A boy can't take side of his mother because his wife will become upset. A boy can't even take his mother's side just because he don't want to make his wife upset. It's not easy for a men to handle all the situations of house. He can't take side of his mother, he can't take side of his wife. If you are a girl what will you do? Will you take side of your mother or your husband? It's so difficult to answer. One more question to all girls If you have to Choose one between your husband and your mother, whom will you choose? It's also not easy to answer. So how can you all wife's expect that your husband should always choose you and he should always take your side?  

Conclusion: Society should never do discrimination whether it's a boy or girl. Both the girls and boys face lot of difficulties everyday. A wife should always understand the feelings of her husband and husband should always understand the feelings of her wife so that they can live a happy life. A  husband should always try to help her wife in her house work and a wife should always try to help her husband financially. 

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